From the time we are born, we are encouraged to idolize and revere celebrities. Not actual humans yet, no, that starts a few years later, after the initial behavior is programmed. But when we are infants and toddlers, we’re inundated with images of lovable characters like Mickey Mouse, Winnie the Pooh, and Curious George.
Maybe it is our parents who plant feelings of
adoration in our hearts for these cultural icons. Perhaps it’s because they
remind parents of their own childhoods, or maybe they like that their children
are calmer when they are engrossed in the TV, allowing parents to focus other
things, like breathing. Regardless of why parents are fond of cartoon
characters, the fact is, children love them.
Kids’ faces light up when they see an object featuring one
of their favorite TV shows. The two-year-old that I nanny for can spot a Doc
McStuffins lunchbox on the other side of Walmart. Or we’ll be walking through
the grocery section at Target and she’ll start squealing with delight because
she sees Minnie Mouse gift bags a couple hundred feet away in the greeting
card/gift section. Today at the library, another little girl picked up a Dora
the Explorer book to take home and the look of fierce jealousy on my little
buddy’s face was unmistakable. She insisted that we put back all the books we
were reading and look for a Dora book right away.
Let me backtrack and say that maybe parents aren’t necessarily
the ones to blame for this phenomenon. I remember being obsessed with
characters (and later, actors and singers) my parents weren’t familiar with.
Anyway, a child’s love of The Little Mermaid or Buzz Lightyear
soon turns into a love of Disney Channel or Nickelodeon stars. If you were like me, you were really into the
Olsen twins movies. Once kids get older,
they start obsessing over movie & TV stars or singers. Teenage girls pore over images of female
celebrities, mesmerized by their “perfection”, and often become distressed
about their own bodies.
Two year old girls want to wear bows like Minnie Mouse and
fifteen year old girls want to get lip fillers like Kylie Jenner. We look at the fifteen year old girls and are dismayed,
but we forget that they aren’t behaving any differently than they did when they
were little. Their idols changed as they got older, but the point is that they
are still enamored by public figures.
Fortunately, not everyone chooses poor role models. There
are a lot of wonderful, positive influences out there. So I am not saying it is
bad to look up to celebrities in general.
I am just intrigued by the idea that young children do the
same thing I do: They get excited when they see a famous character featured on
a product at the store, and they want to have it.
The more I think about this, the more I think that this
behavior is not instilled by parents. I am no expert, but it seems like maybe
we are born with an innate desire to look up to famous people.
“Is there a point to this?”, you may be asking yourself. No.
This concept of celebrity worship in youngsters just occurred to me at toddler
storytime at the library, and I wanted to write about it, ok? Lol. If you have
any thoughts on this subject, please let me know in the Comments section. I’d love
to hear what you guys think!

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